Moving Through Life with a Newfound Strength and Perspective

Abigail Whittmore is reassessing and embracing what truly matters after her cancer diagnosis.

In April 2023, at just 21 years old, I was diagnosed with plasmacytoma of the bone, a rare form of blood cancer, found on my left eighth rib. Plasmacytoma typically affects people 55 and older and has a high likelihood of progressing to multiple myeloma within five years. This diagnosis changed my life, especially given my age and good health leading up to it. Little did I know that this would be the beginning of an unexpected journey that would challenge me in ways I never thought possible.

Prior to my diagnosis, I had my life planned out. I was successfully balancing a full academic course load, extracurricular activities, a part-time job, and a busy social life—things I thought were the most important in life. Cancer forced me to put everything on hold. I had to pause my spring academic semester and, for the first time, prioritize my health over everything else. This was incredibly difficult for me, as I’ve always been the kind of person who put others first. Now, I had to learn to focus on myself.

The physical pain that led to my diagnosis was overwhelming. It started in January 2023, with what I thought was simple rib discomfort. At first, I dismissed it, thinking it was due to a pulled muscle or sleep discomfort. However, when the pain worsened over the next couple of months, I realized it was time to see a doctor. In March, a CT scan revealed a lesion on my rib, and my gut told me something was wrong. A biopsy in April confirmed that I had plasmacytoma, a rare and aggressive cancer. Genetic tests revealed high-risk markers that indicated the cancer was likely to progress to multiple myeloma. I was told I would need 25 rounds of radiation therapy.

Now, I’m in remission, but I continue to monitor my health with routine follow-ups, including regular PET scans and bloodwork. Even in remission, the fear of my cancer progression lingers. The uncertainty of the future is daunting, and sometimes it feels like I’m fighting an invisible enemy. But through it all, I’ve learned to live in the moment. This experience has shifted my perspective on life. It forced me to slow down, reassess what truly matters, and embrace the importance of health, happiness, and meaningful relationships.

I now appreciate the small, often overlooked moments: an early morning, phone calls, or even the things that once frustrated me: traffic, long lines, and cold weather. I’ve become more positive, energetic, and full of joy for life. I walk into work with a good attitude, thank people wholeheartedly, and smile at strangers. While I still have frequent difficult days, I try to make the most of each moment.

This battle has taught me resilience and strength that I never knew I had. I’ve discovered a support system of amazing friends, family, and a cancer community that is helping me fight every step of the way. I have grown in so many ways—as a person, a daughter, a sister, a girlfriend, and a health care professional. Cancer has shaped my life in ways I never expected, but it will not define me. Moving forward, I carry a new perspective, one filled with love, positivity, gratitude, and the belief that no matter what happens, I will be ready for it. I am still here, fighting, and I will continue to persevere with the same resilience that has gotten me this far. If you are a current fighter, survivor, or caregiver: just know, you are not alone. Together, we have the strength to face challenges and find hope in the most difficult times. Stay strong, stay connected, and stay fighting.

Whether you are a patient, survivor, caregiver, or loved one touched by cancer, your story can have an enormous impact. You can provide hope and inspiration to someone recently diagnosed with cancer or a patient undergoing therapy.